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Shackles

  • gimbiya500
  • Apr 20, 2023
  • 3 min read

Updated: Jun 9, 2023



Hera was always different from the other girls in our neighborhood. While the rest of us dreamed of playing house and having families, she had her sights set on something entirely different. I remember her speaking with a glint of expectation in her eyes, as she talked about the life she wanted to lead. "This life is not for me," she'd tell me when I'd pressure her to play house with me. She didn't want to play house with me or with anyone else. There was nothing she found less appealing than waiting for a husband or chasing toddlers around. "What would you like to be in the future?" I'd ask her, but her answers remained the same. "I just want to be free."


As we grew older, Hera's desire for freedom only grew stronger. She was never one to conform to societal norms, and she refused to let anyone else dictate the course of her life. She was fiercely independent and determined to make her own way in the world, no matter what obstacles stood in her way.


I still remember the day Hera left for college. She had received a full scholarship to a prestigious university across the country, and she was over the moon with excitement. She hugged me tightly before boarding the plane, and I could see the same glint of expectation in her eyes that I had seen when we were kids. She was ready to take on the world, and nothing could stop her.


But as the years went by, something changed in Hera. She started to become more distant, and the glint in her eyes began to fade. I didn't see her as often as I used to, but when we did get together, I could sense that something was different. She didn't speak with the same enthusiasm as she used to, and her answers to my questions about her life were guarded and vague.


One day, I received a call from Hera. She sounded anxious and upset, and I could tell something was wrong. She told me that she had dropped out of college and moved back home. "I just couldn't do it anymore," she said. "I couldn't keep pretending that everything was okay."


I was shocked and confused. This wasn't the Hera that I knew. The Hera I knew was strong and determined, and she never gave up on anything. But as she opened up to me, I realized that she had been struggling for a long time. She had been trying to live up to the expectations of her family and society, and it was taking a toll on her.


Hera had always known that she was different, but she had tried to ignore that part of herself. She had tried to fit in and be like everyone else, but it was impossible. She realized that she couldn't live the life that society expected of her, and it was causing her immense pain.


As we talked, I could see the glint of expectation returning to Hera's eyes. She was starting to realize that she didn't have to conform to society's expectations. She could be herself and live the life she wanted to live. It wasn't going to be easy, but she was willing to try.


Over the next few months, Hera started to make changes in her life. She took up new hobbies and started to explore her passions. She found a job that allowed her to work remotely, and she started to travel more. She was finally living the life she had always wanted, and I could see the happiness returning to her eyes.


Hera's journey wasn't easy, but it taught me a valuable lesson. Society often tries to put us into boxes and dictate the course of our lives. But we don't have to conform to those expectations. We can be ourselves and live the life we want to live. It takes courage and determination, but it's worth it.





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